Calm Zeal

  Letting go of deep emotional hurts can be quite difficult and distressing when not properly handled. The fact is that it can keep replaying in our minds, bringing more anxieties, bitterness and sadness, if the matter lingers on unattended to. We all have experienced hurts of some sort whether we categorized them to be deep hurts or not.  Most of us will be able to associate with what it feels like to have been betrayed by a loved one, or have been through a difficult time when there was strain on our friendship, that it was characterized with pain, resentment, hurt and anger over a wrong judgement of us, whether we felt we deserved or didn’t deserve the ill-treatment we were given. Then you are not alone. It is important to realize that our responses to the same perceived wrong vary greatly from one person to another, depending on our interpretation of the situations. That Immediately relays to us that our perspectives on the matter, plays a very huge role on how we are affe...

  Good day my dear friends, In this journey called life, every now and then, whether we are simply minding our daily businesses and endeavors or following up on loved ones, on gossips or on things that doesn’t directly concern us in the name of caring, we very often may also have to face trials and challenges. Trials and Challenges are a part of life. In this life, if we are to ever achieve anything worthwhile, or anything at all we should better make up our minds to face challenges gallantly.  For so many reasons, whenever we are confronted by challenges, it should not be strange to us, because we are not the only one.  Most times, trials and challenges are opportunities to learn from and they allow us to relearn the opinions we have held so dearly to us over the years.  Trials and challenges are periods that take us back to the drawing table to reevaluate our positions on things. They should not be periods of discouragement, despair and hopelessness. We should purp...